Womenhood :)

Very recently I saw 2 movies both had such similar idea of womenhood 
Mr Perfect and ZNMD..
For people who have seen both the movies can hopefully relate to what my thoughts are..
But for those who haven’t, both movies the Hero is the independent modern and a very broad minded gen Y guy..
The girl…also independent, pursuing her dreams, and lives for what she likes…
But when she meets this guy of her dreams….She forgets herself, she crushes her existing dreams….and recreates new dreams which are same as her hero’s..
I am amazed at the level a girl has to forget herself …
I mean from the time a girl gets married her life revolves around her better half.
Movie shows that a girl has imbibed herself with belief that once married she needs to sacrifice everything…
Why such a thing to be shown in movies…well it makes good masala for the movie..
But just give it a thought it’s so natural for a girl to think this way post marriage…
The girl has lived all her life independently, like a princess as her dad would always call her and treat her... :)
And suddenly life has taken a turn …I won’t say how the turn is…
But would like everyone to ponder over this…and please post comments to understand womenhood better :)

Moving Ahead....

Fear of moving ahead..
There is always something which we want
There is always for which we keep striving for
There is always for which our heart aches
When you achieve that something…
Fear sets in..
The one thing which you wanted you have got it…
But the turmoil of emotions.the anxiety....makes you feel is this what I wanted!
Have heard it lot of times but its so true….
Push your boundaries
Get into that zone which you are most uncomfortable with
Live in that space…
Crush and overcome that fear…
And you would be in Bliss…

Life!!!!!!!!!

Life is truly a mystery!
With so many curves and turns and nooks and corners...
It’s truly a Labyrinth…
Makes you wonder what’s in store for u ...
So many choices...some are right some are wrong..actually all choices are right but they can be Good, Bad or Ugly...as my marketing professor used to say..
I always think that why can't Life be like a straight line where we can see the beginning and the end...
But if that was the case then we would not have called it LIFE!
God has created Life so beautifully…
Everyone follows the same cycle with few tweaks here and there…
These tweaks make each person an individual…
Each tweak adds color to your LIFE..
At times the real color unfolds very slowly yet beautifully.
Makes me imagine the life of a Caterpillar to a butterfly...
The ups and downs maketh one’s Life…
More the downs…extraordinary is your story!
So, Embrace Life and Enjoy every Moment of it until the End!